Here is the question I've asked an Elder:
I'd like to ask - what do you think is the most important factor in being happy? Is it to be financially stable? In a loving relationship? To have lots of friends? A job you enjoy? A very difficult question! But I'd love to hear your answer. It's difficult to know what to do for the best sometimes!
Many thanks and I hope you are well."
I'll post back when I receive a reply xx