This girl messaged me distressed, so I started talking with her and even though she was so negative about all the advice I was giving her, he said thank you for listening. I then started thinking, this girl reminds me of myself. When I use to hold in my feelings, saying that as long as others are happy, I am happy. But, what she doesn't know is holding on to pain for too long, will only bring her greater pain, uncontrollable pain. That I couldn't even handle on my own.